Relationship Issues: resolving conflicts/ problems, jealousy, etc.

Relationship Issues: resolving conflicts/ problems, jealousy, etc.

Having connections and intimacy is a natural desire for human beings as we are social beings. Therefore, if we are missing those important things or our relationship is in danger, it affects us deeply. No matter what the nature of the relationships are: with your romantic partner, parents, children, work colleagues, friends, or anybody else, our emotions are attached to these relationships. 

The way we felt growing up and our early experiences become deeply embedded in our subconscious mind and affect our relationships as adults. Over time, these subconscious patterns can develop into unhelpful behaviours, and you may start sabotaging your relationships without knowing it. 

Relationships hypnotherapy is an extremely powerful tool for ending difficulties and generating positive relations to help you create the healthiest relationships with romantic partners, friends, colleagues, and family.

Relationship hypnotherapy can help with: 

Dating confidence

Whether you have been single for some time or are just coming out of a relationship, dating can prove to be and exciting and stressful experience. Opening yourself to be vulnerable and meet new people can be difficult. Relationship hypnotherapy can help you develop a stronger sense of self-worth and confidence. 

Couples therapy

In couples hypnotherapy, your relationship becomes the client. However, the relationship cannot be fixed without each individual looking into their own hurts and unfulfilled wishes and desires. Therefore, for healthy relationship, each person needs to have therapy in order to know themselves, know their priorities and boundaries, be able to communicate them and feel comfortable in doing so. 

Couples therapy can be used with best friends who may have had a bitter falling out, a parent and a child, either young or adult, a step-parent and a step-son, daughter or child, in fact, any two-person unit who are struggling to relate to each other. Your hypnotherapist will choose tools and techniques suitable for the dynamics and the nature of your relationship. 

Conflict management

It is perfectly natural and healthy for relationships to have conflict. After all, we cannot always agree with one another. However, when conflict and anger become a constant presence in relationships without resolution, it may be time to take a step back and re-evaluate things. Relationship hypnotherapy is designed to help get to the root cause of your conflict and helps you to recognise and change the way you communicate for positive conflict resolution. It can also help you learn to manage and cope with stressful emotions more easily.

Relationship Break up (get over your ex) 

Many people find it difficult to let go and move on after a relationship. They just can’t seem to forget their ex: they keep thinking of them, obsessing about them, what they are doing, who they are with, even stalking them online, keep contacting them via phone or social media. These people cannot date or even contemplate being with someone else. They feel depressed, anxious, angry and hopeless. They cannot move forward and there is no way back into the past relationship, so they are stuck between a rock and a hard place. 

Hypnotherapy help people break their old ties and gain insight into the past relationship, so it is easy to let go and move on. Normally, it requires a few sessions for the true change to happen and to start life on a new leaf. 

Fear of being in relationship

Some people have so much anxiety associated with being in relationship that they just tend to avoid it at all costs. In extreme cases, they stop going out to socialise to avoid possibility of attracting unwanted attention from potential partners. Fear of being rejected and hurt most likely is coming from the past experiences or from deeply embedded complexes.

Another case when people avoid being in relationship is when men have sexual problems (e.g., premature ejaculation or impotence). The fear of failure makes them avoid getting into relationship, so they do not get hurt, humiliated, rejected or feel that they let another person down.  

Hypnotherapy can address any fears that you have associated with having relationships. Our experienced therapists will work on discovering the underlying causes of your fears and on eliminating them. They will help you to start accepting and loving yourself the way you are and allowing others to come into your life.

Toxic relationships

It is very damaging for any person to be in a toxic relationship. However, leaving relationships like this comes with its own set of challenges. Normally, people feel manipulated and lack confidence to walk away. Even after ending toxic relationship, it can be difficult to get back to normal. You may find it hard to rebuild your confidence or overcome traumatic memories. 

Hypnotherapy can help to build your confidence and self-esteem. You will rediscover your strength and power to do what you want to do in your life, whether it is to leave a toxic partner, friend, work environment or rebuild your life after ending those kinds of relationship. 

Therapists who solve this problem

Katerina Furman

Psychologist, Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist and Supervisor, EMDR practitioner

Relationships and psychosomatics expert, founder of Fuller Life Centre

  • The British Psychological Society
  • Hypnosis british society clinical


Diane, UK

I came to Valerie in hope to improve my relationship with my daughter. Valerie helped me to gain different perspectives about myself and my relationships in general. I did not realise how many unhelpful beliefs and feelings I have been carrying all my life. I was amazed how only a few sessions of hypnotherapy could make such a difference. Since then, me and my daughter became best friends. I am so delighted I found Valerie and worked on my issues, and I got my daughter back! In addition, my eczema has gone (I now understand that my relationship with my daughter was affecting my health). So, I am doubly pleased! I wish more people realised what they do to their health when they carry a lot of anger inside their hearts. Thank you, Valerie – you helped me in such a wonderful way! All the best to you and your business. 

Ekaterina, UAE

Dear Katerina! I would like to say huge ‘thank you'! You have helped me a lot! I'm so grateful that I have met you at this stage of my life! My partner and I had difficulties in our relationship and I was blaming myself for everything. I was a little skeptical about hypnosis before but now I can see a tremendous result just after 4 sessions with you! All my issues are solved and I feel more confident, relaxed and happy! You are such a professional, kind and understanding person! I can't recommend you enough! Thank you! 

Olga, Russia

I came to Valerie to get help to improve my relationship with my father and money. 

The results are simply amazing! The main thing is that I was able to remove negative attitude towards my father and towards money. Now everything is clear, positive and calm. I thank Valerie form the bottom of my heart for the work she’s done with me. It was very difficult but very important. 

I recommend her as a hypnotherapist without any hesitation. After the therapy, you will definitely feel so much better, and your life will reach a new level. Valerie, I wish you good luck on your chosen path. You are doing great! Thank you for helping people solve their problems and for making them happier! THANK YOU!

Varvara, Russia

The law of attraction stipulates that in order to get something in your life you need to imagine it has already happened. And imagine your feelings in the moment when you realise that the desired moment has come. 

And you choose the right day, send your wish into the universe, high quality wording, you know, all written down… And 10 years later you walk down the street, and then — boom! You realise it’s there! You dream has come true!

Why am I talking about all that? Well, in our work with Katerina this happens to me every bloody week! “Hi Varvara, what has worked for you this week?” Oh my God, exactly that: food has now become just food, to fuel my energy and for taste pleasure, not more not less! How was I feeling? Well, I was feeling amazing, I felt beautiful and sassy, well hang on a minute it’s exactly what I was asking for when we started?!

And it’s not your forced affirmation “I am the best and most beautiful woman”, it all comes from within. And it’s the form that catches up with the essence, and that essence is already inside of me, it is real. So I can’t resist it, I can’t build up walls and hide from those new positive beliefs — they are there, already tried and tested and I can only observe the changes that stem from them.

Hypnotherapy is not “stand up and walk” like Jesus said, but at a certain moment you just realise that you’re walking. And it feels so good! 

And it takes, well, a month to get there. Not YEARS :)

Naira, Amsterdam

I am so grateful to Katerina. The experience with her is a game changer. In only a few sessions Katerina helped me to get rid of my fears and worries related to my upcoming IVF as well as helped me to sort out the multiple issues that I’ve developed since my childhood due to difficult relationships with my farther that resulted in trust issues, worries and eating disorders. Not only I’ve got over those long lasting issues but as a bonus I have improved wellbeing - I sleep better and my heartbeat and blood pressure have normalized. Very happy I’ve met Katerina at such an important moment of my life.

Yanina, London

Life-changing experience! Katerina helps transformation from within: old blockages and beliefs go and you return to your true self. 

We worked on self-acceptance, traumas and shame to remove negative and self-blame that accumulated over many years. I feel reborn, I met myself again, gained new internal strength and started loving myself. All that after 6 sessions! 

I'm now much more tolerant of myself, not shy to stick out, not dependant on others opinion or bound by phobias or concerns about making a fool of myself. At last I'm ready to realise my plans and dreams and move forward, the invisible barriers have disappeared. 

Of course there still happen nasty surprises, life is life, but i'm now ready to take them on. I now have me, so i can do anything! My gratefulness to Katerina has no limits!

Sarah, Birmingham

Katerina, than you for your work!  

Changes started during the sessions: I became more self-confident and starter arguing my points calmly and confidently (whereas before I used to cry and withdraw). After just three weeks my world has changed: my relationship with children are perfectly fine and I learnt to define my personal borders to my husband. I'm not trying to be nice to everyone all the time. I love myself first of all. I changed many "have-to's" to "want-to". I listed my personal objectives for the next three months and I'm confidently working to make them happen. I feel that I'm flying high, boosted with happiness because I can and because I know that I'm managing. Many things became clear and I know 100% where and why I'm going!  

And there is more to follow…

Svetlana, Manchester

Dear Katerina,

From the bottom of my heart thank you for the sessions we had during the last summer. Ever since i've been listening to my feelings and i now realised how powerful a boost you gave to my internal changes. You knocked through the concrete structure of my fears, worries and uncertainties. Instead came inspiration, openness and curiosity. I learnt again how to trust myself. My life is changing in the way i've been long dreaming about. 

An unexpected cherry on top was a resolution of my relationships with my mum, a long-standing internal conflict that was resolved in a single session in the most surprising and ecological way for me.. 

Thank you, Svetlana